Tuesday, 24 July 2018

Her Hate




She knew she should hate him as he broke her heart,

But despite of everything she unable to do so.

She may no longer like or love him anymore, but she understood after long fighting with herself,

That she will never be able to hate him.

Her hate for him is not as strong as her love after all.

--- Copyright © 2018 by Sameera S.

A Note : To Self and To You



Thursday, 12 July 2018

If You Paid For Every Word You Spoke...



Anonymous Relationship




It wasn't love but it wasn't just friendship also.

Deep down she knew that it's something more, but she can't say exactly what.

She hoped that she can give that relationship a proper name but she wasn't sure.

She wasn't sure about anything and everything.

But she knew that some relationships are beautiful without any name too.

Their simplicity, honesty and understanding is enough despite of its anonymity.

And thus she kept and cherished that relation forever.

--- Copyright © 2018 by Sameera S.


Monday, 2 July 2018

Compromises




To make any relationship work we all have to do some kind of small or big compromises.

Compromising in a relationship is not a bad thing rather, it's a necessity.

But you have to check once in a while that is it really worth it? 

All the compromises you are doing to make your relationship work, to make it better, all your efforts do get their worth at the end and most importantly, whether they are made by both the sides or you are the only one who is doing it every time.

It's obvious that no matter how close two people are or how same they are in way of behaving or thinking there will be always this little thing which will be different. Being different from each other it's not a problem rather than its a nature, it makes us alive, a human. We complement each other by being different And taking efforts to make that relationship work and making sacrifices or compromises for it, is a necessity. It shows that you value the other person or your relation and wanted to keep it intact. But if you are the only one who is doing it every time and the other one is just let you keep doing it, then you should take a halt and think a bit more about it.

Compromises are not actually a burden when done by both the sides but it's a solution to many of our problems. It's up to you how you look at it or handle it.

For example, after marriage Man and woman, both have to make many compromises for each other to make their relationship work. But most of the time woman compromise more than a man in many situations or sometimes only she is the one who is compromising for all her new relations.

Like if she was used to outing or partying with her friends, then after marriage if her husband doesn't like it or allow it, then she stop it, but if the same thing is happening with man then he won't change his way. He doesn't need a permission nor he cares what his wife wants to say in it. He will keep living the way he was before marriage. Is it really fair??? Where is the equal compromising on both the sides?? It's nowhere...and it happens. I am not saying that every man is like that or every time only woman make compromises. I just gave a general and most common example we see in our life. It's not only about marriage, but it's about every relation we have in our life.

If you really value the other person and your relation then there is nothing wrong to compromise, but just see that it's not one sided. You should have some of your self respect with you. Don't lose your value in the process of over valuing the other person. It may or may not make your relationship better, but it sure can make you bitter.  Know when to stop doing it and when to appreciate the other person's compromises for you no matter how small or big it is. Relations not work without bit of a compromise, but when done by both the sides. So make it work, but don't lose yourself and your self respect in it. Sure, make compromises, but wisely.

--- Copyright © 2018 by Sameera S.

A One Step



We always wanted to do a thing but most of the times unable to do it because we don't have enough courage to do it. We thought unnecessary or necessary scenarios in our head and comes to the conclusion that it can't happen or it will be hard or if I take this decision now then how it will affect my future, it may have a bad impact on it. And most of the time this over thinking led us nowhere. We just stay where we are.

Stop over thinking folks !!! It's not like every time you have to plan everything in and out and then only you should take a decision. Sometimes what you need to do is to just take a one step. A  one little step towards whatever you want to do. Step towards a thing which you are thinking to do for a long time or always wanted to do or maybe it came just a moment ago to your mind. Keep that thing and don't let it slip away for whatever excuses which are coming into your mind.

Because once you take that step you would know that everything ahead of that step becomes more clear and more easier or if not easy at least you are getting more courage and confidence to take the second step now.Miles journey gets completed step by step only. Not every destination you want to reach has plane or cars you know. Sometimes you have no other option but to just a walk. You may feel that it's too far and you can never reach there, but instead of losing hope what you actually have to do is gathering enough courage and confidence to take one small step towards it at a time and you will see that you have already started your journey towards your destination and eventually you will reach there step by step.

We all sometimes need a just one light push so we can take that step, no matter how big or small it is. Sometimes things happen out weirdly in our favour which makes us to take the decision to take that one step and in current scenario this article of mine is a light push towards you to help you and make you understand that no matter how far you want to go or how near you want to stay all you have to do is take a one step. It may be one step forward or backward. It all depends on what you want. But you sure should have taken that step.

--- Copyright © 2018 by Sameera S.